Thursday, July 28, 2011

Life-changing... Life-expanding friendships

A lot of people have asked me if the trip to Rwanda was life-changing.  There is no doubt that the experience of the trip was unbelievable and amazing.  There is no doubt that I came back a different person.  I am changed.  But it sounds so generic to say that the trip was life-changing.  I guess it sounds generic because I came back and my life and the routine of my life is still the same.  So the question of whether my life has changed or how it has changed is still difficult to answer because the extent of it remains to be seen, even though I am no doubt - changed.  

Time will tell the way that it changes my life though.  It will become obvious in the decisions I make.  How will I help others?  How will I care for others and serve others?  How will I empower others to help themselves?  Can I live fully present and with extreme gratitude?  How will I take better care of our planet?

I recently heard the phrase life-expanding in place of life-changing.  I like it.  Expanding.  It is so true - the experience was expanding.  I am expanded and what is important to me has expanded.  It's about growth.  Part of my growth is because of the people.  The people in Rwanda and the Americans that travelled there in our group have become a part of me...  Friends with a special place in my heart and my mind.  They have all challenged me and encouraged me and loved me.  They have expanded my heart and my life.  

So in Africa, I had life-expanding experiences.  And I formed life-expanding friendships.  And maybe it sounds generic.  But my life is changed.    

This will be my last real post on Africa.  These pictures are of my new friends.  I am so lucky to know them.  And I miss them a lot.  

I know that this is a ridiculous number of pictures.  :)

Bob Jr, one of our translators.  He had a cell phone with a Bruno Mars song as a ring tone.  

Jean-Vierre.  One word - captivating.  His personality is amazing and really draws you in!  

Michelle, say cheese!

Anna and Michelle

Hi Kathy!  

Rachel was one of our drivers and she did a great job and was a lot of fun to have on our team!

New friends :)  Valerie and Kathy

Our other translator, Dora - everyday she wore the greatest earrings!

Patrice - simply one of the kindest people ever.  

Joseph - such a warm smile.

Especiosa and Valerie - two of my favorite people ever

Theadocie!

New friends!

Some of the men.

Break time...

Matt and Bob Jr.  

Aloys and his motorcycle!  This guy has the most contagious laugh.

Especiosa singing a song and showing us her dancing style.  One of my favorite things - ever.

Veronaisa joining in on the singing and dancing!

Kathy is showing the women the videos and pictures of their dancing and our work.

Sleepy workers...

Friends :)

Aloys practically came and sat in our laps - he wanted to be in the picture so bad!

Love.  

:)

Shade!!  

Jean-Vierre really connected with all of us.  Here, Matt is showing him some pictures.

This warms my heart.

One of my favorite pictures!  It is true though that a camera cannot capture the personality of Especiosa.

Valerie!  Such a kind soul.

The women of the Rwandan Water Team.  

Valerie and Kathy - again!

Everyone (or at least most of us)!

The American team... and we're not in our blue shirts!

Can you count the people in this car?  I'll give you a hint... it's 13!

Safari!  Absolutely beautiful scenery.  Amazing.


I love Africa.  

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Glimpses... around the site. around the village.

The local Rwandan team is made up of people who volunteer on the water team to try to make a difference in their communities.  Many of them are active in their churches and volunteer for many other causes in their communities... like maternal health, child development, and health and hygiene.  These people are changing their community and it is visible!  As part of the American team, we are there to boost their morale and spirit so they can continue their hard work throughout the year.  In the end, they raised my spirit.  My morale was boosted.  

Now that I am back in my real life, I need to figure out how to maintain that spark.  How can I spread my spirit?  

Am I making a big enough difference... in my community?  to my friends and family?  How can I live a little more like the Rwandans?

A few more pictures here... or a lot really.  It's kind of a like a day at the site or a day around the village, but really just a few of my faves.  I took an impossible number of pictures!  I wish I could post them all!


One of the trucks that we rode everywhere in - quite a crowded ride for sure!

Water tank, water buckets and water cans... 


It was especially fun when we got to get in pictures with the kids!

I was fascinated by this woman.  She was really striking. 

Can you see Kathy?  She is in there somewhere - surrounded by happy kids!

One of our other modes of transportation... how many men can fit in one Toyota Helix?  Matt loved the Toyota Helix!

These two melt my heart.  Look at them.

Load it up, strap it on!  Make it all fit in the truck!

Love the rolling green everywhere - beautiful!

Aloys' bike!

Matt was teaching the kids his name!  Nitwa Matt.

Everyone has cell phones but not electricity.  This was one of the little charging stations.



Our home away from home... Moucecore.

Amazing view of Kigali, from one of the balconies at Moucecore.

The men, hard at work!



Another cell phone charging station.

I love this picture of the water taxi down at the river!  I absolutely love it.  


Lunch!  Check out the double banana.... !